#TheFixer: Stacey and J Sbu talk about a daughter who longs for her mothers love and friendship

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Today's Fixer was really sad, because feeling unloved and unwanted is never the best feeling, especially when it comes from your parent - the one person that should be showering you with all the love in the world.

All she wants from her mother is a friendship and for her to actually show her that she loves her. That reassurance is so important yet Tamlyn feels like her mother has never given her any of these.

We asked KZN, do you have any advice for Tamlyn?

Have you yourself been in a situation where you find yourself being the odd one out in your family or feeling that you've never received enough love from your parents?

Listen to what KZN had to say
3 Mar 2021 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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